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When a damaged man wants to find an excuse to justify staying with (and suffering from) his toxic girlfriend or wife, he will say: "The devil you know is better than an angel you don't know." Well, that's a foolish popular statement. The devil you know is just a devil, UNLESS you don't want to fling that werey out of your life. Then the angel you're yet to meet will still be an angel; just make sure you're not the devil to that angel. Period. If you like, keep tolerating the devil. Iya majẹ ori ẹ (you will keep suffering). ----------- "Elephchild, you know, if I break up with this girl after 2 years of relationship, who knows what the next girl will do since all women are the same." ----------- The reason you don't want to fling her (the devil) out of the window is not because all women are the same, or because of 2 years of dating; it's because you love suffering = you don't GENUINELY love yourself enough. No one on earth can disagree with this truth. I've spoken, and that's final.

I honestly feel sorry for any visitor who spends more than 2 days in my house. This is exactly what my wife & I discussed a few days ago. Sometimes, we don't cook at all throughout the day. Why? 99.9% of the time, I eat around 02:00 pm. For the past few days, my first meal of the day has been around 07:00 pm - 08:00 pm. My wife doesn't have to wake up early to cook or stress too much about what I will eat. If you're the type that loves to eat 3 times or more per day, I'm sorry for you🤣 Excess body fat is associated with higher risks of type 2 diabetes, heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, fatty liver disease, osteoarthritis, and several cancers. Guess what one major cause of excess body fat is? Regularly consuming more food than your body needs💀 Now, guess what the Qur'an 2:168 says about food? “Eat from what is lawful and good on the earth.” Keywords: good on the earth = beneficial and not harmful to your health = GOD IS TRYING TO PROTECT US FROM DANGER🤷 Then guess what the Qur'an 7:31 says? Do not be excessive: “Eat and drink, but do not be excessive. Indeed, He does not like those who commit excess.” Keywords: “do not be excessive” = even if something is beneficial, consuming too much of it can still harm you. Guess what? Modern science strongly supports this principle. Listen carefully. Before I eat or drink ANYTHING, I ask myself: Is it beneficial to my health? Even if it's a yes, I won't eat too much of it. This is exactly how I will train my children too. If you give my child something that's not beneficial, or give them too much of something beneficial, I will take it seriously and question why you gave it to them (no matter who you are)👍 If it reaches your turn, give your own children cheese balls, sweets, biscuits, and other highly processed foods that many parents regularly give their children. It's your choice. Soda (like Coke, Pepsi, or Energy Drinks, etc.), alcohol, smoking, junk food, and many other things can harm your health. So ask yourself: If you knowingly keep putting things that can harm your health into your body, while asking God to protect you from harm, are your actions matching the protection you're asking for? Answer that by yourself. Make the damn decision by yourself. But don't say God didn't try to protect you from danger🤷

I still use this process to help myself achieve what I struggled to achieve in 2025. Will you use it too? The decision is yours👍

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The reason people, or maybe family pressure want to kill (EXHAUST) you is because they know your "NO" is not audacious = your weakness to say no to what you can't ACCEPT into your life = Unstable energy! Then they keep capitalising on it, even when it keeps destroying your peace of mind. I repeat: human beings are wired to be happy consistently. Me? You'll NEVER see me lose sleep over something or someone I could have said no to. This is why my mood is ALWAYS hyper-active = more mental and physical energy = making me focus more and thinking clearly = attracting more money and giving me more time to enjoy my life. If you're financially broke right now, the reason is tied to your mental energy. If you read my content, you'll see positive energy all over it. You can't ChatGPT energy + it's hard to keep faking energy. This alone makes potential clients pitch their idea to me by themselves. See recent proof👉

The word "no" is ENOUGH of a response to what you don't want to do. Can I come with you? No! Can I sleep with you? No! Can you give me urgent 2k? No! The moment you start adding more words to it, you're potentially giving the person more room to question, negotiate, or pressure you about your NO. Let's do it practically: 😡Them: Can you give me urgent 2k? ✅You: No. 😡Them: But why nah, it's just 2k? ✅You: Yes, but right now, I don't blah blah blah. 😡Them: When will you give me? See that? You keep explaining yourself = giving the person more room to seek a different answer = destroying your boundary. In life, if you don't have the audacity to say "NO" and stand by it without feeling guilty, people will take advantage of your weakness & they might fuck up your life. And remember: if you want people to respect your NO, you better learn to respect theirs too.

People will ALWAYS defend what they believe they can do and cannot do. That is part of who they are. Don't fight it. Why? That is how "identity marketing" works. Your single most important job is to deeply understand the identity they ALREADY have, then show them how your "Godfather Offer" fits that identity = a lot of 💰 for you.

Have this at the back of your mind anytime you're writing copy (or ANYTHING related to marketing), even if you're advising people: If you conclude for them, they will reject you and fight you "ON" the idea. But if you get them to conclude it on their own? They will fight you "FOR" the idea💀

But Elephchild, what if the wife speaks softly (so feminine), respects her husband, and makes him change his decision and choices, is that not control?😏😡 Olódò uprising. That's what we call influence. Are you still confused? Stay with me, my emotional baby. The key difference is whether her husband still has "GENUINE FREEDOM" to disagree with her. ✅Influence: She explains her reasons, speaks gently (so feminine and not masculine), and he changes his mind because he agrees with her. 💀Control: She uses pressure, threats, dark manipulation, punishment, sex, money, fear, or other leverage so that he changes his decision because he feels he can't SAFELY say no to her. Fucking losers! The sad truth is: most modern men can EASILY be controlled if you use just 3 things: money, sex, or dark manipulation (when they lack the deep knowledge of dark manipulation). Any more objections? Bring it on.

No woman in the world can respect a man she controls (especially through sex). Because the word "control" means having power over someone’s decisions, behaviour, or choices in life. And no matter how God-fearing she is, she will definitely shit-test you consciously or subconsciously. Why? Because every woman on earth wants to know if they can trust their man's decisions and choices in life. So if she knows she can control you (especially through sex), then automatically, she knows another woman can also control you, which is "THE BIGGEST THREAT" to her because she knows another woman can easily destroy her marriage💀 The fun part? Women know when men can be controlled (especially through sex, or chat). IT'S TOO EASY FOR THEM. Once she knows you can NEVER be controlled, that's when she loses all her power over you. The reason your girlfriend/wife doesn't respect you is because she knows she can control you👍

When someone tells you “It can't be done,” what they're really saying is: “I can't do it.” And they hope you believe them, so you start treating THEIR LIMITS as limits on what YOU can achieve🤷

The craziest truth about problems? A problem exists because something can be changed. If NOTHING could be changed, fixed, stopped, or made better, you wouldn't call it a “problem.” You would simply call it reality. So when you see a problem, DON'T ONLY SEE THE PROBLEM. Look for what can change it.

You've already married her, EVERYTHING is going fine, then suddenly... she started acting strange and feeling unhappy because of what she read or watched on social media (mostly from her friends or favourite influencers). For instance: maybe she saw a newly married woman on TikTok saying her husband used to give her monthly allowance, then boom, she starts thinking how she can get monthly allowance from you to be like the other woman she saw on TikTok🤷 Guess what just hit her? The "outer force" has ALREADY succeeded in fucking her mind, making her feel unhappy. Now, if you won't do (or you're not capable of giving her monthly allowance), she will start creating little problems that will lead to grave problems in your life, no matter what you've done for her. 99.9% of the time, your marriage will NEVER be truly peaceful because she "NEEDS MORE" to be genuinely happy. And sadly, this is the bondage where most good married men are trapped inside💀

“What's the best way to choose a woman, especially in this generation?” A guy in the Love Mastery community asked me. My direct best TRUTHFUL answer, which is impossible to disprove: choose a kind & reasonable woman who doesn't need much to be genuinely happy in life. Period! Because if she needs a lot to feel happy, it becomes EASIER for an “outer force” to influence, pressure, or manipulate her into buying and chasing things (like greed, hate, envy, or fear) that she may not have needed in the first place. For instance, I once dated a jobless pretty girl who NEVER felt truly confident, beautiful, or happy unless she wore makeup, fake hair/wig, eyelashes, constantly changed her perfectly working phone, and chased the latest fashion she saw on social media. Warning: If an outer force can easily influence and pressure her, she may keep (consciously or subconsciously) creating new problems in her life, WHICH CAN SPREAD INTO YOUR OWN LIFE TOO💀

Don't get carried away. Using AI to talk to your followers/or customers WITHOUT a real person involved can destroy the "human connection" your brand needs. People can automate tasks with AI, but when customers can't reach a real person + can't explain their problem properly, or feel like they're talking to a machine every time, trust starts to disappear💀 You can have great products, great offers, and great marketing, yet still lose good customers because your brand feels cold and distant. My brand is about giving people a REAL human connection. My point? Use AI to automate the boring work, but don't automate the relationship. If you want to build Godfather offers people want and learn how to acquire rich-paying clients WITHOUT making your business feel like a machine, that's exactly the kind of thing I teach. - Elephchild.

This month alone, the free version of ChatGPT helped one of my clients in the UK save more than $100, and those designs were unique, with conversions increasing almost immediately. You would NEVER know those images were created with ChatGPT.