Men Sphere

Hello G's!

Her past, her background, her company, her spirituality, her age, and her health status matter the most. There are consequences to every precept ignored. You can start in Captain Savior mode or Master Builder mode. The latter triumphs; the former sees dust. #MenSphere

While I agree that knowing and speaking English is not an accurate measure of intelligence, Writing good English is an indicator of maturity, mindfulness, and attentiveness. Before you send that text message, pause, re-read, and correct. Don’t be hasty. #MenSphere

Listen, Gs, I ain't gonna sugarcoat this. You'll fuck up, I know, but in all the fuckups: DON'T have kids you can't afford. This will fuck you up for good! Philosophically, I'd rather you cut your dick off if you can't control it. This has messed more men than anything else in this world. Secondly, don't spend more than you make. You'll never climb out of the shithole if you can't jump over this hoop, and you'll continuously get fucked. Don't marry young. Don't move in with your girlfriend. Don't fund a lifestyle of a woman you're not sleeping with. I'd rather you invest that money elsewhere or just send 'em to your parents. This can't be insisted on more. If you have ears, you've heard. #MenSphere

Note this, Gs: In the end, it all boils down to your environment—your surroundings. You can learn the game, hit the gym, read books and change your self-image... But if you're still stuck in the same place, surrounded by the same losers and midwits? You’ll always relapse. You’ll always backslide! #MenSphere

As a man, you should not slouch. Sit with your back straight, shoulders squared, and head held high. When standing, plant your feet firmly on the ground, maintain a strong posture, and let your body language convey confidence and purpose. Good posture speaks volumes before you even say a word. The same goes for snooping and slumping. A man doesn't pry into others' affairs; he respects privacy and minds his own business. Slumping, whether in attitude or posture, shows weakness. Stand tall, act with integrity, and maintain composure—your presence should command respect without needing to demand it. #MenSphere

People smell cowardice easily; it stinks. As a man, you should never show cowardice. Always double down or appear to welcome conflict. – Embrace ruthlessness. This will make your life easier, win you respect, and ensure good treatment. If you seem fearful or avoidant, you'll either be preyed upon or repelled (rejected). #MenSphere

A few things: - A man must become the rock for others. - A man must take responsibility for everything. - A man must pick up, carry, and pass the frame daily. - A man must not show weakness at any cost. - A man has to believe he has himself, and that’s all that matters. - A man must be ruthless and determined—no room for niceness. - A man must embrace pain and run to forge a better version of himself daily. - A man must be masculine. #MenSphere

Listen my G! Building is a journey. Building is a discipline. Building is a relentless pursuit. Building is the embodiment of strength. Building is an act of endurance. Building is a test of willpower. Building is about creating something from the little you have. My point: Rome wasn't built in a day. You have to acknowledge where you stand and what you possess. No one has nothing! Little is still more, if propagated. Then begin building from there! The starting point. #MenSphere

Listen carefully Gs, Respect is earned. – I don't respect men simply for existing, I judge them on their behaviour and competencies. Same applies to women. This wild notion you must respect women simply because they exist honestly this some simp bullshit! #MenSphere

Thou shalt not simp!

It has been a while, Gs. I genuinely hope you're still pushing yourself to be better than your yesterday's version. I'll be posting frequently on this platform. Invite your friends to learn. #MenSphere

Gauging. Learning to gauge a woman's interest through her body language, words and signals is very useful indeed. Not only do they give you a green light to make your move, but it's a good indication of how well or how badly you are interacting with her. If a woman is interested in you, she will make it very easy for you. She will make an effort to see and talk to you. She will send you signals and drop hints that she likes you. She will get close to you. She may even try to create opportunities for you to kiss her. A girl who is not interested, however, will make things a lot tougher, brush off meeting you, turn away from you, keep her distance so you can't touch or assume any form to contact her. Time to move on! #MenSphere

Reality rewards cold men. The truth is cold and destroys the comfort of illusion. But the truth sets a man free. Masculine men are comforted by the cold – The brutal truth and cold reality. You should doubt and distrust emotional reasoning, sentimentality and nostalgic thoughts. Be rational. Rational thinking keeps a framed man centered and he does not moralize emotion like a female. Practice DETACHMENT. Strengthen the sense of self by practicing solitude. – Separate sense of self from the surrounding masses. LEARN to EXIST above and outside your peer pressure. Don't let others rule your mind. This is what being one's own man means. SEEK RESPECT NOT AFFECTION. #MenSphere

Listen, my G, There's nothing like overnight success. You must labor for it. You must build your value over time, relentlessly. Money only comes to authenticate value. If you're valueless, you'll forever be broke. Look for ways to boost your value – your finances will start improving. Work, work, work! Kill gambling tendencies. Kill hopes of winning a lottery. Stop waiting to get lucky. Learn to create your own luck. #MenSphere

There will always be two versions of what you leave behind: negative and positive. This you can't change. Similarly, what you do, whether on a positive scale or negative scale, will never sit well with the majority. That's why you should do whatever you do for yourself. If you rely on people's interpretations, offense will be your daily meal, and you'll never achieve anything significant. This world is never without hate. The world is not friendly to men either. It’s either you dominate it, or it dominates you. You’ll be wounded. You’ll be hated. You’ll be abused. You’ll be fought. You’ll be rejected. You’ll be opposed – but this is insignificant if you remain steadfast, purposeful, and true to yourself. The harsh reality is that the world is relentlessly indifferent to your struggles. It will crush the faint-hearted and elevate the resolute. Remain framed, purposeful, and true to yourself. Don’t move to please anyone, and you'll triumph daily. #MenSphere

Don't wait to learn the hard way! Avoid setting up a business in her name. Instead, start a business yourself and hire her. That way, if things go south, you'll still have the company coffee machine—and your sanity. Don’t put her in charge of your dream project. Instead, create the dream and make her part of the team. That way, if things go south, you’ll still have the office snacks—and peace of mind. Re-read and learn. #MenSphere

The fifth month of this year is almost sinking. I can't emphasize this more. If you've put a woman on a pedestal, it's time to drop her. If you're in her inbox, simping, it's time to drop that nonsense. What are you still doing in a toxic relationship that only breeds pain and hopelessness? If you've not opened a savings account yet, what are you waiting for? That business you've been postponing opening, isn't this the perfect time to do it? If you've not started learning a new skill yet, what excuse do you have? And above all, why do you need external motivation to put your life in order? By now, I know you know nobody is coming to help you. It's you and your GOD. It's you and your EFFORT. Cut the bullshit and get working. Write down your vision boldly, and take action. #MenSphere

How are you, G? I'd like to emphasize this: If you're a man in your sane mind, DON'T MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER. And while on this point, I'd like to stress that there's a difference between a SINGLE MOTHER and a WIDOW. A single mother is a woman who is raising a child or children without a partner or spouse, whether through separation, divorce, or if she never married (Check: baby mommas). A widow, on the other hand, is a woman whose spouse has died, and she is left to raise any children they had together on her own. While both may face similar challenges, the circumstances leading to their situations are different, and one is a BIGGER red flag than the other. With the former, DON'T! But for the latter, proceed with CAUTION. It's in your best interests if you marry a woman with no children and start your own family. #MenSphere

How're you, Gs? It's April. What have you been doing in the last 3 months? Grinding is not optional. It's either you have something of your own or you're nothing altogether as a man. One thing I have learned in a whole new dimension in the last month: there are a lot of 22-year-olds and older idle men still living in their mommy's house. My question: What are you still doing there? I want very much to say you need to exit immediately, but for now, I'll settle for, YOU NEED TO HAVE A FUCKIN EXIT PLAN! You'll never grow if you're still hanging on your mother's titties. You need exposure. Mothers have a tendency of coddling and weakening their sons, protecting them from the inevitable suffering of the real world. Stop hiding. Get out there and learn the ways of men. Rent a house well within your means. Be alone for a while. (Start by building a small library). Learn to live within your own means. Learn to be fuckin' independent. Upgrade as you grind. Growth is gradual and compounding, but you need a starting point. #MenSphere