Samandarspeaks

This age hit me harder than I ever expected. One moment I'm thinking about my future, my career and whether I'm doing enough... and the next I'm hearing questions about marriage, timelines and "what's next?" I see my parents getting older and it makes me realize how fast time is moving. At the same time, I'm still chasing dreams that sometimes feel bigger than where I am right now. Some days I feel like I'm supposed to have everything figured out but the truth is I'm still learning, still growing and still trying to understand myself. It's strange how life suddenly starts asking for maturity, responsibility and decisions all at once. Everyone expects you to know the way, while you're quietly trying to find it yourself. I'm just learning how to carry all of this without losing the person I'm becoming.

I have led a toothless life. A toothless life. I have never bitten into anything. I was waiting, I was reserving myself for later on and I just have noticed that my teeth have gone. - Chris Williamson

Second, I bought this little baby so we can make even better content now. 🎙️🔥

One is I have repaid my debt, finally.

I have got two good news.

Being poor is only romantic in books and movies.

Katta “rasxod” dan qo’rqinchilirog’i kichkina “doxod”. Ha deb qanaqa qilib tejashni o’ylashni o’rniga, ko’proq topish yo’lini o’ylang. -Husnida Khamid.

Good men must know violence, so evil men do not get fluent in it. - Miyamoto Musashi.

In some personal news, I'm excited to announce that I'm tired all day no matter how much sleep I get. @samandarspeaks

Baxt bu o’zingga bor narsadan qoniqishdir. Muvafaqiyat esa hozirgi ahvolingdan qoniqmaslikdan keladi. Xo’sh, qaysi birini ko’proq xohlashingni o’zing tanla!

10 years of therapy summarized in one minute. 1) no one is coming to save you. Being functioning adult means you’re responsible everything in your life. Even if it wasn’t your fault 2) strong boundaries make good relationships, weak boundaries make drama.…

10 years of therapy summarized in one minute. 1) no one is coming to save you. Being functioning adult means you’re responsible everything in your life. Even if it wasn’t your fault 2) strong boundaries make good relationships, weak boundaries make drama. 3) Many of your problems won’t get fixed. You just need to learn to live with them and keep going despite them. 4) Your mind lies to you all the time. It will tell you word is ending when it is not. A mistake is fatal when it is not. Everyone is thinking about you laughing at you when they are not. Learn how to tell your mind, “ shut up”. 5) Stop trying to convince people to like you. Right people won’t need to be convinced. Everyone else just gonna get very annoyed. 6) Sometimes the best thing you can do is let your dream die. No one likes to hear that, but it is true. 7) Only a few people in your life matter in long run. When you find them, treat them right. Make time for them. Keep them close. Be grateful.

Unlike Rome, there is only one road that leads to my heart.

High agency High agency o’zi nima ? Bu 21 asrda sizga eng ko’p kerak bo’ladigan qobiliyat. Yuqori agentlik bu “mani hozir sharoitim yo’q” “vaziyatlar to'g’ri emas” demasdan, hech kimni ayblamasdan xohlagan narsamizga erishish qobilyati. Biz eski qoidalar ishlamaydigan davrga kirib kelayapmiz, endi jamiyat yozib bergan narsalarni ketma- ket qilib muvofaqiyatga erishishni iloji yo’q. Kelajakni va qilishni imkoni yo’q deb o’ylagan narsalarimizni yuqori agentlikdagi odamlar quradi. Hayotimizdagi, atrofimizdagi muammolarni ham anashu yuqori agentlikdagi odamlar hal qiladi. O’zimiz ham qandaydir muammoga kirib qolganimizda, telefonni olib yuqori agentlikdagi akamizga qo’ng’iroq qilamiz. Chunki bilamiz u muammoyimizni aniq hal qiladi. 1903 yilda The Newyork Times jurnali so’zma so’z “yaqin million yilda odamzod ucha olmaydi deb” yozadi. Oradan 69 kundan keyin Aka uka Wright-lar birinchi samalyotlarini uchirashayotgan edi, chunki ular yo’qni javob sifatida olishmagandi. Yuqori agentlikdagi odamlar “Hayot shunaqa ekanda “ “Endi nima ham qilamiz” Deb ketishmaydi . Balki ular biror ishni qilmoqchi bo’lishsa “Buni qanday qilsam bo’ladi ?” degan savolni berishadi. Ular hozirgi yechimlarga rozi bo’lib to’xtab qolishmaydi, yangi yechimlarni izlashadi.

Yodda tut: Oson tanlovlar ,qiyin hayotni Qiyin tanlovlar esa oson hayotni yaratadi. Tanlov esa o’z qo’lingda.

Wisdom doesn’t always come with age.

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