self love club ੈ♡‧₊˚

https://s.lemon8-app.com/s/GgUNSwyhTj

https://open.substack.com/pub/goranshbharal/p/you-will-always-be-loved-more-than?r=5tjlkw&utm_medium=ios

i used to think mixed signals meant that they were scared. now i know people confuse you when they're unsure of you. what's not meant for you will disappoint you a thousand times until you understand.

your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth 🤍

what you can't control should not consume your mind

hey guys it's been awhile :" recently i've been through some issues and i've realised that as long as you did your best, that's all that matters

merry christmas loves! hope you all have a beautiful one this year 🤍

"if its meant to be, it will be." you cant force someone or something to come into your life. often, we need to accept that "it is what it is" mindset. thats why there are things like fate or destiny. what is meant for you will come. it is one hard pill to swallow, learning to accept that certain things are beyond your control. the only thing you can do is to be sincere and allow them to be who they are. their actions will show their genuine intentions and how important you are to them. whatever flows, flows. what goes away, let go. whatever happens, accept it and have faith that better things come when you wait for what is truly meant for you <3

https://open.substack.com/pub/ayushithakkar/p/things-i-do-when-im-losing-myself?r=5tjlkw&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

self love club ੈ♡‧₊˚ pinned «loneliness does not come from having no people around u, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to u — loneliness is rarely about empty rooms. it is about carrying words u cannot say and truths u don't feel safe to share. healing…»

i've also been on substack quite often recently cause im trying not to doomscroll tiktok so much 😭 would yall like me to compile a few of my recent reads? <3

i came across this tiktok recently and saw this comment which made so much sense so i'm just sharing this with u all :" have u ever seen those tiktok videos where a guy approaches strangers and says "tell me your language and i will try to speak it"? at first people usually look annoyed or uninterested — until he actually starts speaking their language, then their whole attitude changes. that's exactly how love languages work too. people feel more valued and understood when u make the effort to "speak" in their language, instead of expecting them to adjust to yours. it shows appreciation, effort, and genuine care, and that's what makes the connection stronger :""

loneliness does not come from having no people around u, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to u — loneliness is rarely about empty rooms. it is about carrying words u cannot say and truths u don't feel safe to share. healing is learning to speak what matters most so u are no longer alone with it. it's the work of letting yourself be seen and known for who u really are

hey loves :" remember to stop comparing your journey to others and move at your own pace and to do everything for yourself, not for others <3

i've been feeling down in the slums recently so i have been doing a lot of thinking. i think for me, my personal goal isn't to be happy all the time, but to be content. being happy all the time takes work imo, but being content feels somewhat carefree. i think it's a privilege to be content with your life and to be happy at the same time and i really appreciate it that i can finally say i'm content.

happy national gf day to all the girlies here <3