The Cat Guides (Backup)

There aren't enough degrees or high IQ scores that can rival with self-awareness. Self-awareness is the most important aspect you can master. Paying attention to your own patterns of thinking, your inner states of being, your vibrational shifts and their causes, is the real key to evolution. Through self-awareness and effectively applying the necessary changes, you are able to skip decades of pain and misery. You are able to unlock doors you never even thought existed. ✨✨✨

You're not doing a bad job because you're not healing as fast as others, you're not manifesting as fast as others, or you're not succeeding in life as fast as others. Your exact situation, your specific past trauma and programming are things others have not experienced. They might have experienced situations that are worse than yours or better, but never yours. There is no one rule fits all when it comes to spiritual healing. You actually have pieces of the puzzle that they do not have, even if they claim to know better than you for achieving faster results. You can certainly get inspired by others and use their helping hand. You can also reject their opinion about you not doing well enough due to not being as good as them. You are doing good and they couldn't have done better in your shoes. ✨✨✨

Being a good friend or a good person, doesn't include lowering your standards, suppressing your desires or playing small, in order to please others. If anything, you are doing them a disservice by lowering your vibration. It can feel hard to go a direction that you know will upset others because it's not compatible with what they want for you. The thing is, if they don't want you to go for what makes you feel happier, what makes you feel like yourself the most, it means they want you to comply to their personal desires and neglect yours, no matter how nice they are. Taming yourself for the pleasure of others, is not being nice to yourself. You think it makes you a nice person, but you will project that onto others, and you will judge them and try to control them as well. You can never go wrong by respecting yourself and saying No to what you feel isn't enough for you. You're not crazy if you feel something is not good enough for you. You're just aligning with the truth. ✨✨✨

The more you perceive an abusive person as powerful, the more power you give them and the more you feel like a victim. Take that power away by aligning with the truth about what they really are: unhealed and suffering from self-neglect. You have to stop telling yourself lies as you heal. ✨✨✨

Feeding off other people's pain in order to feel like the winner in a situation has weakness written all over it. It is not a bright power move. Just because the abused one is considered the loser in a weak position by the abuser, it does not mean it is true. It is true from a low vibrational weak perspective only. A truly confident powerful being does not need to manipulate other people, in order to access confidence, feelings of success, power, and love. You were abused by a weak person who is already suffering from self-abuse & self-neglect for they have to resort to hurting others to feel powerful. ✨✨✨

Energy self-analysis after interacting with others Most humans tend to not understand themselves. They make decisions based on reasons they can't even identify correctly, they get mislead by other people & they end up believing they want something when the truth is they want SOMETHING about it. They let others tell them who they are, what they just agreed to and what they will do next. When you feel confused after an encounter, it's time to reframe your situation, even if the confused feeling is very small. This means you get to ask questions such as: What did I just agree to? Did I mean what I said or was I just going along with THEIR energy and THEIR right and wrong? Have I unconsciously participated in unnecessarily demonizing some of my own preferences in the process of acting like I agree? By helping yourself consciously stand in your preferred positions energetically after an encounter with another human, you save yourself from so much pain and so many obstacles & problems. ✨✨✨

Lack of self-love or self-validation, doesn't usually come from direct self-hatred: direct insults towards yourself for example. It comes from lack of PRACTICE of self-love and self-validation, until their lack dominates your vibration and you have no idea why you have to deal with so many narcissists. Make it a habit to consciously shift how you talk to yourself, about yourself, and to actually do it and not just get distracted by life. If you manage to do this, you will become unstoppable. ✨✨✨

The truth about relationships with a narcissist A narcissist is just an unhealed person, who feels the need to abuse others whether through playing games or being toxic, in order to get their own dose of validation or proof of being loved from the abused one. They might lead you to believe that you need them through mind games such as abandonment, but the truth is, they are the ones who need you and your validation. Through these toxic moves, you might end up believing you are not good enough. However, the truth is you are so good that they are running on your validation because it means a lot to them. It might even be all they're relying on in order to function properly. By recognizing this, you no longer doubt your worth in these toxic relationships. Stop playing your part by shifting your focus to the real truth, as many times as you need to. ✨✨✨

So what if your evolutionary path is messy? The whole point of your evolution is in its messiness. You can't evolve and have it be perfect from A to Z. It is literally about transmutation. You can't be motivated to transmute that which is perfect. In fact, celebrate how messy it was for that means true fast evolution. ✨✨✨

It didn't happen because you deserved it. It didn't happen because you had it coming. It didn't happen because it's so powerful and dangerous, no matter their plans & no matter what they say & scream. It happened to push you to shake off the last doubts you had about yourself. It happened to help you pick a lane and officially choose what type of energies you invest in. It happened to make you part ways with regressive energies & people. However, you gotta actually see it for what it is and use it for what it is, rather than interpret it as though it was a misfortune & now you have to suffer the consequences forever. Things happen to help you realize how amazing you are. They happen to help you. Anything else is a disempowering lie. ✨✨✨

Humanity does not even know what "choice" means. In order to choose your timeline, focusing on fighting or criticizing the one you don't prefer, is not the solution. You choose by focusing on your preferred timeline, how it would feel if it happens, and making sure you don't dwell in hating the current reality or hating the "worst outcome". Catch yourself as you find yourself choosing what you don't even want. lightcodex.com ✨

Just because it's on the news, it doesn't mean you must give it importance and spread it. When you do, you help anchor that reality into the physical 3D, and it eventually reaches you as you manifest it. If you want to fight a narrative, give it no importance and focus. It is your focus, whether good or bad, that brings it to life. lightcodex.com ✨

It's not up to you to lower your success and happiness, so others don't get to feel envious or jealous or bad about themselves. It is up to them to join in cheering for your success & happiness. Remember that the "normal" is for you to be supported, loved, cheered for, rooted for. It is not the opposite! Do not take the bait of the programmed. Ignore it and anchor yourself in all kinds of worthiness. There is no limit to the happiness, love, peace & admiration you deserve. lightcodex.com ✨✨✨

༻❁༺ Gentle reminders ༻❁༺ ✧ You are allowed to feel worthy of infinite bliss, no matter what others are experiencing around you: even if they are experiencing extremely negative realities. ✧ Tapping into good-feeling states of being is always something you must bring yourself to, something you deserve and you can do. ✧ Your well-being only benefits humanity, no matter how it is perceived by others. Other people's opinions are not the truth. ✧ Your problems aren't as big as they seem, even if other people would consider them big: other people's opinions are not the truth. lightcodex.com ✨✨

It doesn't matter what weapon is used to prove that you are unworthy or less then : logic, physical 3D proof, mass agreement.. It is false. You must pierce through the illusion. There is nothing, no reason that will ever prove you to be unworthy of admiration, being celebrated, being thanked for your existence alone. It doesn't matter who disagrees with it and why. It's time to embody the truth and stop falling for lies or even arguing with them. lightcodex.com ✨✨✨

Low vibrations seek to dominate, to control. High vibrations don't. Next time you encounter someone trying to control you, remember that you are dealing with someone who is on a low vibration by definition and that your high vibrational opinion is certainly NOT paling in comparison just because it is less controlling, loud and demanding. Let the craziness be on the other side for it TRULY has no impact. lightcodex.com ✨

Your happiness, your abundance, your blessings, your peace, don't need to make sense to others. Go for it and shine unapologetically. ✨✨

You are a creator whose worthiness is not defined by your achievements, your popularity, how much you have or haven't been through, how you look, how sociable you are, etc. Your worthiness is by default here. There is nothing that you need to fulfill in order to finally become worthy of respect, accolades and joy. Feel free to shine your light without any condition fulfilled. lightcodex.com ✨

You can have compassion for someone, wish them the best, respect them, and still NOT do as they say or expect. It is okay to make decisions that support you well-being, even when they are judged as bad by others. They are doing their best from their perspectives. Sometimes their best is a low vibration that you don't need to comply with. lightcodex.com ✨

Every time you face a thought that seems impossible to overcome, remind yourself that it's a temporary lie that you are believing. You can overcome it. There is a solution. And no, it's not complicated or impossible to get to. lightcodex.com ✨