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✨ Itinerary for Upcoming Dawrah With Sheikh Dagash Al-Ajmi hafidhahullah ! An opportunity to spend five days immersed in beneficial knowledge, from 26th–31st August 2026, featuring a series of lectures, explanations of two works, and dedicated Q&A sessions. The dawrah will address important matters related to ‘Aqeedah, Manhaj, contemporary challenges facing our community, and other subjects of benefit to the Muslim. 📍 Masjid As-Sahabah 295–297 Haggerston Rd London E8 4EN 📋 For the complete programme, including lecture titles, dates, and timings, please see the schedule. Make the most of this opportunity to attend and benefit, and share the programme with others so they too can take part. May Allah make this dawrah a source of guidance and beneficial knowledge, accept the efforts of the Shaykh, and grant benefit to all who attend. Aameen. _ https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VadAK4n5K3zclcMjeg0F https://t.me/masjidsahabah ✉️ info@masjidsahabah.org

If you want to practice polygyny, then do not be a thief - be a man! Shaykh Sulaymān ar-Ruhayli

What Is True Manhood? | Shaykh 'Abdurrazzâq Al-Badr

Sakinah in Polygyny https://chat.whatsapp.com/LvPo3Zkfs2J6nkRqrzmNVo?mode=gi_t

The Purpose of Marriage | Shaykh Ṣālih Al-Fawzān

Something to keep in mind

Treat Women Well! | Shaykh Ṣālih Al-Fawzān

#LIFE_LESSONS One of the best ways to thank those who cook for you is to return your plate empty and clean, showing you truly enjoyed the meal, and to make sincere du'a for them. اللهم أطعم من أطعمنا وأسق من سقانا

Weekend lectures @MasjidAlImaamMuqbil

إذا فازت فريق أ على فريق ب، زوجتي طالق طالق طالق

I especially enjoy spending time with my family and serving my parents in the hope of attaining Jannah. I also enjoy spending time in nature, hiking, trekking, and camping. Travelling and exploring different cuisines—especially desserts—are also things I enjoy. Requirements in a spouse: - Someone who loves Allah ﷻ and my beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ more than herself and anything else in this world. - Someone who lives for the sake of Allah according to the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf. - A woman of taqwā who understands that pleasing her husband, within the obedience of Allah, is a means of earning Allah's pleasure. Likewise, I will strive to be the best husband I can be for her. - Someone who will support and encourage me in seeking knowledge and giving da'wah for the sake of Allah. - Someone who is willing to live a simple life, following the example of my beloved Prophet ﷺ. - Kind-hearted, with good akhlāq, who loves her spouse for the sake of Allah. - Someone who will encourage me to increase in charity and other righteous deeds for the sake of Allah. May Allah grant us righteous spouses. Āmīn. https://t.me/womensbenefits/1856

﷽ #Support_Line On occasion, I may use this platform to assist trusted brothers in their search for marriage. While this may not be the primary route to marriage, it serves as a support line for ikhwah. Why are you doing this? {كذلك كنتم من قبل فمن الله عليكم} I was once in that position myself and understand how it feels, so if I am able to help my brothers in any way, I am happy to offer my assistance. How it works: 1⃣. I will provide a general recommendation of the brother based on what I know. This is not definitive, so interested parties should carry out their own due diligence. 2⃣. If you meet the brother’s criteria and are interested in pursuing marriage, please have your wali send a brief message to [+447956114844] or [Sidehustles1447@gmail.com], expressing interest and including the profile number. To avoid disappointment and wasting time, don't contact unless you meet the criteria! 3⃣. My involvement ends once contact is established between the wali and the brother. I take no responsibility for anything that occurs after that point. 4⃣. The CV will remain on this platform until the brother gets married, requests its removal, or if I pass away and am unable to take it down (may Allāh have mercy on my soul). To proceed: The following is a marriage CV of a brother whom I have known for approximately 2–3 years. I know him to be a hardworking, kind, well-mannered and calm brother, based on my own observations and those of others. And Allāh knows best. ------------------------------------------- Profile 3 ------------------------------------------- Gender: Male Height: 5'11 Age: 32 Build: Slim Beard: Yes Born Muslim or Revert: Alhamdulillah born Muslim Nationality: Sri Lankan Ethnicity: Sri Lankan Occupation: Cyber Security Consultant Education: BSc in Computer Security Languages spoken: Tamil, Singhalese, English, Arabic (basic) Would you consider Polygamy? Not now. Do you pray 5xs a day? Yes Marital status: Never married Do you have children from previous marriage? NA Which country are you currently residing in? UK Which countries you would consider moving to? Saudi or any other Muslim majority country Brief description about you: Firstly, I praise Allah for guiding me to adhere to the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf. I also praise Allah for allowing me to work in Cyber Security for the past 9+ years. I am currently in the process of establishing my own business and, In shā' Allāh, plan to move to Yemen, Makkah, or Madinah to pursue Islamic studies. I also assist a local da'wah team in their regular activities. As mentioned above, In shā' Allāh, I plan to pursue higher Islamic studies and become a full-time dā'ī and student of knowledge for the rest of my life. This is not merely an intention—I am actively working towards it, bi idhnillāh. Masha'ikh and teachers I take knowledge from: Shaykh Ibn Bāz, Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymīn, Shaykh al-Albānī, Shaykh Muqbil, Shaykh Yahyā al-Hajūrī, Shaykh Hishām at-tāhirī, Shaykh Salīm al-Hilālī, Shaykh 'Abd al-Razzāq Al-Badr...Ustādh Abū 'Athiyyah, Ustādh Abū Isḥāq, Ustādh Abū Fajr, and Ustādh Abū Sulaymān. I would like to live in a Muslim country. In shā' Allāh, I sincerely hope to make hijrah and am actively working towards it—preferably to the land of my beloved Prophet ﷺ. If I were to live in a non-Muslim country, it would only be for the purpose of spreading the dīn of my Rabb through da'wah after acquiring the proper knowledge. I would rather not describe myself, as I believe such descriptions are best given by others. However, brothers around me have described me as ambitious, adventurous, level-headed, and family-oriented. I strive to imitate my beloved Prophet ﷺ in all my actions.

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𝗠𝗲𝗻'𝘀 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝘀 (126) A Man is Not Measured by His Knowledge, But by His Actions A sister writes: “I was married to a student of Islamic knowledge, yet he constantly reminded me of my illness and made me feel like a burden. That experience taught me one lesson: never be deceived by titles, appearances, or reputation. Look at a person's character, for that is what you will live with every day.” You do not need more than a sensible husband with good character, who establishes the five daily prayers, earns from halal sources, and has a connection with the Qur'an and worship. Remove from your list the conditions that social media has filled your mind with. There are homes filled with oppression, abuse, and misery despite an abundance of beards, Islamic texts, certificates, and titles. And there are homes filled with mercy, tranquillity, and kindness among ordinary Muslims who may never have studied advanced Islamic sciences, yet understand what it means to fear Allah and treat others well. A person's books, certificates, and reputation do not guarantee a successful marriage if they do not act upon what they know. So look first at their character, manners, and religion before looking at their memorisation, status, or popularity. The title of “Shaykh” will not lessen the pain of oppression. Knowledge alone will not benefit others if it is not accompanied by good character. A long beard will not show mercy if the heart is harsh and the tongue is hurtful. Shaykh Ibn ʿUthaymīn رحمه الله said: If the seeker of knowledge does not display virtuous character and good manners, then his pursuit of knowledge is futile. [شرح حلية طالب العلم، للشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين رحمه الله | ص ٨] A man is not measured by what he knows, but by how he lives. And the real test of a person's religion is often found in the way they treat those under their care when no one is watching. Anyone can speak about good character. The real test is living by it. Copied from @SalafiSistersHomeschooling https://t.me/Menzbenefits/520

𝗠𝗲𝗻'𝘀 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝘀 (125) Is Bleeding During the First Intercourse Necessary, and Does It Prove a Woman’s Chastity? Question: Is bleeding necessary on the wedding night when the hymen is broken, or is it not necessary? Is it evidence of the bride’s chastity and honour? What is the ruling of the Sharīʿah regarding this? We would be greatly thankful for your answer. Shaykh Khalid Ash-Sharihi (may Allah preserve him) replied: Bleeding is not considered an essential condition for all women when the hymen is broken. The amount of blood that may come out differs from one woman to another. It should be known that Shayṭān is extremely eager to create separation between a man and his wife. He makes every effort to achieve this goal, and one of the ways he enters a person’s thoughts is by causing doubt about the wife’s chastity. Therefore, the absence of bleeding during the first intercourse does not necessarily mean that a woman’s chastity should be questioned. The hymen may be elastic, meaning bleeding does not occur during intercourse, as doctors have mentioned. Also, the hymen may be removed for many reasons other than intercourse, such as exercise, jumping, frequent menstruation as a woman grows older, and similar causes. The blood that is expected to appear is usually only a drop or two. This blood may come mixed with natural secretions, so the man may not notice it due to it being small in amount or not clearly visible. Therefore, it is not permissible for a man to doubt his wife’s chastity simply because she did not bleed during intercourse. And Allah knows best. Source: https://t.me/BOT_9_9_1/25200 https://t.me/Menzbenefits/519