The Lessons 🦋✨

Um did you ever wonder what it would be like if you were reincarnated? Doesn't it sound thrilling? Everything would change from your appearance to your relationships. Imagine starting over from somewhere to nowhere, carrying nothing except the memories of your past life. I think about this a lot, whenever I see a slum kid, a person with a disability, or someone who's been a victim of human cruelty. Sure it's easy to imagine being born as a rich kid, a famous athlete, or even a mafia boss🍃 . But what if you were given someone else's difficult life instead? Whose life would you want to live? And if you had the chance, whose life would you want to fix? So how im supposed to fix anyone's life so the first key would be knowledge. I'd start by understanding myself. What do I look like? What can i offer ? How long could I survive on my own? Do i have deep relations ? Once I figure those things out, the rest would depend on the choices I make. Everyone would probably approach this differently and that's what makes it fun. It's like the beginning of a movie. it's Sunday so Let's overthink together.

I love it when someone tells me what to do or shows me how to do things. There's something comforting about trusting someone enough to simply follow them. It feels peaceful like for once I don't have to figure everything out on my own. Unfortunately, since childhood I've had to do everything by myself. Whether it was playing with insects or solving a math equation, I always had to learn through trial and error. I wish I could explore new cities but I never really know how to enjoy the moment. Instead of getting lost in the experience, I get lost in my own thoughts. Sometimes I feel like I don't know how to simply live in the present. Sometimes I wish I had a big brother. Someone I could annoy without feeling guilty. Someone I could force to come with me on random trips or ask stupid questions or tell everything that's been going on in my mind without worrying about being judged. I know friends are amazing nd I'm lucky to have some really cool ones. But in reality I've never truly opened up to them. They don't know what I'm actually doing, what I've been through or the thoughts I keep locked away. Maybe if they were with me in real life things would have been different. Who knows? Sometimes being cringe isn't bad if it makes your heart feel lighter. After all, not every feeling has to sound cool to be real. 🥀

Friendship is humanity's most comforting illusion. People believe that calling someone a "friend" creates loyalty, obligation, or permanence. It does not. Nature recognizes no friendships only interests. People meet because their paths align, help each other because circumstances demand it, and stay together only while there is value in the relationship. Remove the need, and most connections quietly disappear. Betrayal is not the failure of friendship; it is the failure of expectation. You imagined a moral contract where none existed, then blamed reality for refusing to honor it. The wise do not chase friendship. They offer respect without attachment, trust actions over titles, and understand that most people remain only while your existence serves a purpose. In the end, the world is not governed by friendship it is governed by necessity.

Most of us want to be bad at some point. But first, what does "bad" even mean? I guess it's simply someone who acts against your POV. Sometimes we want to do things that go against our own morals. Why? Maybe it's because of pleasure, curiosity, revenge, jealousy, or countless other reasons. Even though we know we can often achieve the same things through ordinary means, yet we're still tempted to choose a different path. But why? Maybe it's because we never truly know which path we've chosen. Which path is compactible for us ? Perhaps what looks bad today turns out to be good for us tomorrow Or maybe we spend too much time comparing ourselves to the kings without thrones, we usually chase power instead of the feeling of responsibilities that makes a person great. There are countless reasons why we begin to doubt ourselves. Maybe we only call something "bad" because it's easier than understanding it. But that doesn't settle the feeling. We all crave a solid reason, a piece of knowledge strong enough to keep us loyal to our own morals. So what could that reason be? I think anyone who thinks like that is a complete moron. Life isn't that simple. No path is inherently good or bad. It's up to you to decide what kind of person you'll become while walking it. One thing, however seems certain both paths can lead to success if you're consistent. The difference isn't the road. It's the person taking the steps. So don't be sad jst try your best not to fail at giving your best , being in regret is way more worsen than losing 1000 times.

I desire the things that will destroy me in the end. I never thought u would look for reasons to cry . Ig crying is so underrated when was the last time u cry as u used to when u were kid ?🥀 we have so many ways to laugh but not enough ways to cry🍃

What does pain taste like? It's like a spicy burger. Try pinching yourself , you'll be able to feel that sharp and controllable pain. I guess that pain isn't sweet. It’s like burger with only green chilly nd nthg else. But have you ever had a pain attack? That sharp pain when you grab your heart? It wasn't painful, but it looked delicious. The suffocation when u really want to talk but no one is with uh , or the moment when you want to breathe but the air tears your throat as you inhale, what does that taste like? For me, it's so pondering. When you try to put your eyes in your throat, when your whole attention is focused on something so forgettable. It’s a prefect burger with stablety of everything. The pain of cutting nerves with an obsolete knife is so sweet. I think pain has 50 shades too, just like my yummy burger. It's a random thought. Maybe it doesn't make sense. But i think Pain is better than happiness.

Love is a kind of healing potion. It only works when uh are broken🥀

The Day when I separated to my parents.... 1st night after I locked the door and turned around the only sound in the room was my own breathing The fan was on but the silence didn’t break.. At 1 AM a utensil fell in the kitchen My heart said Someone’s there My mind said It’s just you I gathered courage got up and saw a rat...I laughed out of fear. A week later that same silence started feeling like a friend While making tea I’d talk to myself You’re in a bad mood today come on let’s take you out for a walk Alone doesn’t mean an empty room it means a room full of yourself It’s scary because now you can’t make excuses All the responsibility is yours. Living alone taught me I am the company I was waiting for..... A month later I realized living alone isn’t scary What’s scary is that you’ll meet yourself and maybe for the first time you’ll actually like who you are In the end the fear was gone Just me and a little bit of peace.... ☘️

Just sharing today experience I got on the bus and got the window seat and thought I would just enjoy the breeze in peace but within 5 minutes I felt someone staring right at my face so I fixed my top and looked outside.... thinking ignore it and when the crowd increased a man came and stood next to me and with every jerk of the bus his hand would brush against my arm.... and the first time I thought it was a mistake the second time I knew it was deliberate and my heart was racing with both anger and fear thinking should... I speak up because there will be a scene and people will stare at me instead but then I remembered.... if I stay quiet this becomes normal for him so..... I gathered courage and said loudly Bhaiya keep your hands to yourself and for 2 seconds.... the whole bus went silent and he looked down and stepped back two steps and an aunty looked at me and nodded and that was enough but even after reaching home my hands were shaking and when Mom asked what happened.. I could not tell her because this is daily and what do you say about something that happens every day and the truth is... we girls do not think about where to get off before travelling we think about who not to sit next to and ....how much to adjust the clothes too and who not to make eye contact with because staring and touching.... are not just actions they are reminders that we are not safe even in public spaces and that we do not have rights over our own bodies... the day we speak up we take a little piece back that belongs to us and you are not alone in facing this and speaking up is not wrong not at all....🍁

Quiet nights. Early mornings. Mind on your goals. Soul at peace. No drama. No chasing clout. No pretending to be someone ur not. Jst growth, focus, and peace. Doesn’t that looks great sp smooth nd clear but uk most people are addicted to noise cuz silence forces them to face themselves lol , But the truth is discipline looks boring if u not goin to start smthg , consistency looks boring ,building smthg real looks boring but it's those "boring" days that stack into the life everyone wishes they had. The fake flex fades the real ones last.

Mhm so how to stop procrastinating? Um why it's necessary huh? Oh ofc everyone wants to do something productive but they don't have enough will power to stand up nd do things. Ahh understood but some day idk why people get out nd cry nd blame themselves for not doing things on time. Lol it's nthg extraordinary nd you know it too so how can u stop procrastinating nd being lazy? Um it's like over grown nail in your toe it's hard to remove cuz u never cut it u ignore it whenever u felt sweet pain but now it hurts as hell see you know that it's curable still but you have to bear up the pain so wht now ? U have to stop doin the thing wht u have been doing let it heart crave .

Love your fucking life. Take pictures of everything. Tell people you love them. Talk to random strangers. Do things you are scared to do. Fuck it, because so many of us die and no one remembers a thing we did. Take your life and make it the best story in the world. Don't waste that shit. But most of us gonna die as lazy anyway.

NGL, I hate the rules of this world. They’re just ruining everyone. Like, if I’m capable of killing people and want to protect my country, then why do I need to give a written exam? It should be based on physical ability. Or if I want to save someone’s life, why do I first have to study every disease, history, and evaluation? After that I have to give an exam, and only then am I able to join the forces. Bruh, can’t you just give me practical knowledge and test it in the final exam? But no, people in this world want me to waste my 18 years just to passed out of school and now I’m supposed to study even more before I can actually do something. What a bitchy system.

As I told you, I’ll share some points about how to get attractive as a girl or stand out among other girls. For a boy, he has to put in lots of things to be different, but for girls it’s not that tough. If you have nice curves, or even if you don’t have them, you can still get most guys. But you know they fall for your flesh, not for your personality, and they will ditch you when they get bored of you. On the other hand, when a man puts in some effort and is able to brag a woman, she gets committed because she loves him, not for intimacy, and that’s the huge difference. But listen, if you put enough effort into making your personality better, you can brag a loyal and charming guy. But I can’t trust women. They are emotional fools. Literally, if they have everything, they will still choose a red flag.

When you walk into a room unsure, shrinking your posture, oversoftening your words b4 they are even heard, others unconsciously accept your hesitation as info. But⚡ When you stand calmly, not performing, not demanding, just certain of your place, the atmosphere changes. Your words are listened to longer. Your silence holds meaning. The same face is suddenly described as striking. astounding? Isn't it ? Nothing about you changed it's just what Your permission did.🌙 You do not receive respect and then become secure. You become secure and respect begins to follow. So release the idea that you must qualify to be seen.Cuz the right people will not need you reduced to fit their comfort. They will meet you at your full presence.🕊️🌙☘️🪷

Don't ruin your beautiful soul to fit in an ugly society🫂💖 A woman is taught to examine herself before she is taught to know herself. She learns societies opinion of her before her own opinions, Presentation before presence. She gets evaluated in secs and remembered by details that have nothing to do with her mind.🕊️❤️‍🩹 If physicallly pretty and she is not taken seriously. Not physically pretty enough and she is overlooked. If she is Confident and she is arrogant. Quiet and she is weak.🪷 The expectations are contradictory by design. The standard is not a destination,It is more like a leash. But ur face is biology, not a verdict.🌸 Your features were not created to pass their stupid inspection. Beauty trends move with time, yet women are asked to treat them as permanent laws..!? The deeper truth is - People respond less to ur appearance and more to your relationship with yourself.

Confidence doesn’t make you perfect.It makes you legible.🕊️

Money alone can’t make you cool or nonchalant or someone whose attention everyone wants. A poor guy can still be charming without expensive clothes. I’m not gay but I still notice guys and their dressing sense so I guess I can give some tips. So listen. 1) Confidence matters. It can change everything. And do you know what confidence means? It’s not about how much you speak but how much energy and certainty you put into your words. Speak like you deserve to be heard. 2) If you’re a nerd or get nervous, that’s okay. Many people like those types of people too. It’s about how you handle yourself. If you know you’re nervous sometimes it’s better to stay silent than fumble around. You can’t completely change yourself overnight. A shy or nerdy person doesn’t suddenly become confident unless something big pushes them. For example, I’m the guy whose spirit is wild but I can’t say what I want so I prefer silence because I know it would lead to fights. ( im notorious abt it 🦦) 3) Now about dressing sense. Don’t show everything. No one needs to see too much. Even if you’re bulky or well-built, wearing slightly loose or well-fitted clothes often looks better. The more mystery you keep, the more attractive you appear. 4) Finally, it’s about how you smell. Your scent lets people notice your presence even before you speak. A good fragrance leaves an impression. I have more points, but these are the main ones you should follow. 🥀 (Um should I also give advice to girls🦧?)

Sometimes we just need a pretext to get success. Like for months I kept contemplating starting something crucial for my growth nd yet I constantly avoided it with excuses. Then it struck me, what if I used an excuse as to finally begin? So I started, made a friend, built a connection with her, and began doing the things that I had been avoiding. And now, I’m finally on my way🕺. So just use some excuse to start smthg .

This world is both hell and heaven nd it depends on you when you want to shift between them. There are no rules and no book to guide you. You have to figure it out yourself that what you does mean heaven or hell.