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Thinking to start silva mind control programme again. old peeps know.

you have to move through life and love assuming the answer is yes. assuming people want to see you, help you, hire you, hug you, love you. otherwise, every bid for connection or growth will be laced in fear and desperation. and people can smell that from a mile away.

You'll ghost your own goals but get offended when someone doesn't text you back. Made a promise to yourself last week and already forgot about it, but when someone else breaks their word to you, suddenly that's disrespect. The double standard is wild. You demand from others what you won't even give yourself, then wonder why self-respect is missing.

duh

Using vpn to see what's going here lol who all up?

Hard Pill to swallow as an adult: At some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that's honest to you. People pleasing will drain you, not save you. You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person.

Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.

Always being in hurry is a terrible way to live life fr. Literally disrupts your nervous system i swear. This is the second most rewarding realisation I have had in my adult life. The first will always be ofc a good night’s sleep.

Learning to have a very loose grip on the world. And the people. And the things. It's all temporary. All of it. All of us.

the best thing you can do for yourself is actively increase your surface area for luck to hit you. go outside, try new cafes, museums, events, take a new route home, speak to people, ask questions, side quest. the more you do, the more serendipity and synchronicity will find you.

Be careful not to fall into the self-improvement trap. The trap is thinking you're growing just because you're reading, watching videos, or listening to podcasts. It feels like progress, but most of the time, it’s just a way to avoid doing the actual hard stuff. No book or podcast will change your life unless you apply what you already know.

I love the idea of something that feels like the opposite of suicide, the moment when you wake up one day and choose to live. To live with love, joy, bliss, and happiness. The moment you decide to begin again. Or maybe the opposite of a trigger…when small moments in your day spark joy, peace, or gratitude, and you start noticing them more and more. I learnt that word for it already exists and it’s called “glimmer” I hope glimmers keep appearing in your life, again and again.

Everyone you meet knows something you don't know but need to know. Learn from them.

inside your body is PITCH BLACK your cells do all of that in the DARK self care is swallowing lit matches every 5 minutes so that ur cells can see whatever the fuck they’re doing in there

One of the most powerful and the quickest way to grow in life is by allowing yourself to be a beginner. It’s okay to not know things. And wayyy okay to accept that you don’t know those things.

its been long here lol since aug 13. should i start posting again?

Unhealed trauma will sometimes give you a high tolerance threshold to toxic and disrespectful behaviour. Just because you can handle it doesn't mean you have to tolerate it.