marriednotperfect

Dating reminder: Don't run from relationships, run from people who will clearly make bad partners.

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A relationship means you come together to make each other better. Support each other. Build each other. Believe in each other. Be their peace, not their problem.

5 Rules Of A Relationship: 1. Stay faithful. 2. Make them feel wanted. 3. Respect your partner. 4. Don't flirt with others. 4. Make time.

If you can love, trust, respect, and support each other from a distance, then you'll be unstoppable once you're physically together.

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Dating reminder: It might hurt to walk away but that will never compare to the pain of staying. Don't let the fear of being alone, keep you in a relationship where you're alone.

"I love you" means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go.

If there was ever anything I would like you to keep in mind, it would be the fact that marriages doesn’t always fall apart with a huge betrayal or one explosive argument. Sometimes, the distance starts off quietly, and it usually follows these patterns — conversations becoming shorter, laughter happening less often, one person stops asking how the other really feels, both people staying busy, tired, and distracted. But here’s the thing… From the outside, everything may look fine. They still live together, pay bills, attend family events, and may even post happy pictures online. However, something feels different, and deep down, one or both people know it. The truth is that a marriage does not have to be falling apart before it needs attention. Often times, it simply needs more care, more time, and a real effort to connect. That is the part many couples miss. They wait for a serious crisis before they start caring about the cracks. But by then, the emotional distance may have grown much wider. To make it more personal, let’s change the context from they to you. You both fall deep in a situation where you still talk every day but don't really connect anymore. You're discussing bills, dinner, work, and the kids, but you don't really know what's happening inside your partner. Here's the question: When was the last time you asked, "How are you actually feeling?" Because when your partner’s feelings are never prioritized, it's certain that you’ll both live more like roommates than partners. You both do your own thing, spend less time together, and barely interact when you're finally in the same room. Here's the thing… Since there’s no real conflict, you both feel there’s peace, but that’s only because there is not much connection left to fight over. Then there's the lack of effort, where you stop planning time together, showing affection, or doing the little things that once made your partner feel special. And sometimes, the problem isn't that love has disappeared. Sometimes, effort has. And as a result… A lot of couples go as far as avoiding difficult conversations about money, intimacy, resentment, parenting, and trust because they want to quote on quote "keep the peace." However, what they don’t know is that avoiding every hard conversation doesn't create peace. It creates pressure. Where… Eventually, a small comment or a forgotten chore triggers a massive reaction. If this happens, was the real problem as a result of the comment or the chore? Definitely not. It was everything that had been left unsaid. But here’s the most damaging part of it all… The part when couples stop trying to fix the distance. They no longer feel disappointed by the lack of closeness. They simply accept it. That kind of emotional numbness is dangerous. At this point, they may think nothing is left to hang on to. Wrong, there’s always something left to hang on to. The love may still be there, but the relationship has been neglected for too long. Neither of you should pretend everything is fine, because the best time to pay attention is before the pain becomes unbearable. Your best option is to start making an effort to mend things. And if the distance feels too deep to fix alone, seeking help is not a sign of failure. That said, Here are 5 signs your spouse wants a divorce and how you can prevent it from happening.

Dating reminder: The wrong relationships just prepare you for the right one and when the right one comes, you'll be thankful the others didn't work out.

Men don't have to be perfect to make women happy. All a man really needs to do is love her like he promised when they first dated.

Dating reminder: It's better to have nobody than to have someone who is half there, or doesn't want to be there.

A woman that remains loyal to you without a relationship is a woman you should marry.

The biggest rule in a relationship is no matter how mad you are at your partner, you do not go and seek someone else's attention. You sit your ass there and make it right.

Dating reminder: You'll always win when you move with love and genuine intentions. Always.

How sad waiting for someone could be, you imagine a world with them, and they don't appear in it for you.

It hurts so much when you can feel yourself becoming less and less important to the person who means the most to you..

Love is when nothing is ok and everything is hurting you a lot but still you want the same person over and over again.

Dating tip: Be with someone who can love you wildly, not only behind the locked doors, but even in front of the whole damn world. Someone that accepts you with all their heart.

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