Neverdrift - Live Intentionally
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Empowering growth minded people to live intentionally
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доля реакций к просмотрам- 16:44Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Obesity is hard. Being fit is hard. Being in debt is hard. Being financially disciplined is hard. Working at a job you dislike is hard. Starting a business is hard. Living intentionally is hard. Regretting your decisions down the line is hard. Cutting off relationships that are not aligned to you is hard. Staying in relationships that continually drain you is hard. Choose your hard.23,44%
- 16 авг.I'm convinced that the key to life having low expectations and high standards. Low expectations for things outside your control. High standards for things within it. The recipe for a good life. - Sahil Bloom9,41%
- 19 июл.Michelle Obama said you have to know how to exist when life is just life. She said "Sometimes it's like, this is not exciting. I'm not winning. I'm not losing. I'm not achieving. It's not a party. I don't have friends around everyday. Most of life is just the nothing in the middle. Most of life is just ordinary. You gotta be happy being a little bored."7,10%
- 4 авг.Happy (almost) mid-week!! Sharing 5 reminders for when you feel disconnected from your own life 💫 1. The most important thing you can do is build a life you actually chose. 2. The life you tolerate becomes the life you live. 3. The most underrated skill: Knowing when you've drifted, before the cost becomes irreversible. 4. You can be disciplined, successful, and still be living someone else's version of your life. 5. Growth isn't always moving forward. Sometimes it's stopping long enough to ask if this is actually where you want to go.5,95%
- 3 авг.Life becomes a little easier when we stop getting mad at things for being what they are. The pipe broke. The computer stopped working. Traffic is backed up for miles. Our anger may be understandable but it does not help solve the problem. It can be even harder with people. The boss is unfair. The referee made the wrong call. Someone we love does not respond the way we hoped they would. Our getting angry rarely changes another person. More often, we are the one who suffers most. And perhaps the hardest challenge of all is learning to stop being angry with ourselves for who we used to be. We said something foolish. We made a bad investment. We forgot an important deadline. We made mistakes. But no amount of anger in the present can change what we did in the past. Learn from mistakes. Make amends. Do your best. Then let go. Life is too short to spend fighting reality for being what it is. - Marshall Goldsmith5,23%
- 10 авг.I love this excerpt by James Clear - I recently asked a friend if he wanted to hit a certain business milestone and he said, "That depends. What does it cost me?" Writing down your goals is easy. Everybody wants the glamorous result. What really matters is whether you want the costs associated with it: the money, the time, the tradeoffs. Don't merely ask yourself what do I want to achieve, but also what am I willing to pay? I tell my clients often that there is no perfect decision - just know the tradeoffs so you can make decisions more intentionally. That actually reduces a lot of fear of making the "wrong" decision. What is right or wrong anyway? Who is to decide? In what time frame? Coming back to this has helped ease a lot of my anxiety when it comes to making major decisions 💪4,65%
- 23 июл.I'm increasingly convinced that the ultimate sign of growth is faster recovery. You still get upset. You still make mistakes. You still have bad days. But you return to center faster. Apologize faster. Reset faster. Learn faster. Fast recovery compounds. - Sahil Bloom4,45%
- 16 авг.Ask if you're alive. Ask if you're curious. Ask if you're becoming someone you respect. Ask if there are people you would drive 3 hours for at 2 in the morning. Ask if something still scares you enough to cross a divide for. Ask if you have something worth grieving because you loved it that much. Ask if you're making anything, risking anything, feeling anything. Because some of the most meaningful seasons of your life won't be happy ones. Raising a baby can be exhausting. Building something can be terrifying. Marriage can be uncomfortable. Growth can feel lonely. Grief can split you open. Starting over can make you question everything. None of those experiences necessarily feel good. But they can make a life feel true. - John Kim4,19%
- 14 июл.The older I get, the more I realize how much of your life is shaped by the stories you tell yourself. I'm not ready. I'm too late. I'm bad at this. I never follow through. Be careful. You believe what you repeatedly rehearse. Tell better stories. Then prove them through action. - Sahil Bloom3,64%
- 9 авг.Returning from a recent trip to Europe got me reflecting on the invisible "default settings" we grow up with here. Between baggage carousel delays and rental car mix-ups abroad, my Singaporean mindset naturally craved order, speed, and accountability. When your environment operates like a well-oiled machine, efficiency becomes second nature. But living in a high-performance system comes with a trade-off: an unspoken pressure to constantly optimize, produce, and treat our own lives like machines. In Europe, amidst the slower administrative pace, I saw another way of being - people lingering over three-hour lunches and fiercely protecting their rest. It wasn't about which culture is superior, but a reminder that hyper-efficiency isn't the only valid blueprint for living. Growing up here means standing on the shoulders of giants as the foundation is built - and we get to choose what we build on top of it. Happy Birthday, Singapore! 🇸🇬❤️ 📖 Read the full piece here.2,95%
- 16 июл.We’ve been told that "more" is the path to meaning. Instead, it leaves us over-scheduled and chasing a happiness parked in the future. But joy only lives in the present. Most of us spend our days in a transactional world, always looking at what comes next. In doing so, we skip right over the small joys scattered around us—the morning coffee, the dog leaning into your hand, the joke at dinner—waiting for big events that our egos deem worthy. Joy doesn't require something hard-won. The search for it is much easier than you think: it’s not about cramming more experiences into your life, but getting more out of the moments you already have. - Bill Burnett and Dave Evans2,93%
- 15 авг.Different kinds of rest matter. Sometimes it’s stillness, sometimes it’s movement, sometimes it’s connection. The key is finding what restores you.2,86%