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CHEKINISH Kerakli paytda chekinishni biling. Har bir jangda oxirigacha kurashish shart emas. Ba'zan eng to'g'ri qaror — davom etish emas, to'xtash. Lekin ko'pchilik buni qila olmaydi. "Shuncha vaqt sarfladim-ku..." "Odamlar nima deydi?" "Endi tashlab qo'ysam, yutqazgan bo'laman..." Shu fikrlar sabab noto'g'ri yo'lda yana bir yil, ikki yil yurib qo'yishingiz mumkin. Bir narsani tushunish kerak: Chekinish — mag'lubiyat emas. Agar yo'l noto'g'ri ekanini tushunsangiz, o'sha yo'lda davom etish jasorat emas. Qachon kurashish, qachon kutish va qachon chekinish kerakligini bilish — kuchli insonning belgisi. Shuning uchun muhim qarorlar oldida o'zingizdan so'rang: «Men hozir buni haqiqatan ham to'g'ri deb bilganim uchun qilyapmanmi yoki shunchaki hissiyotim sabab davom etyapmanmi?» Chunki ba'zan hayotingizni o'zgartiradigan eng yaxshi qaror — oldinga yurish emas, orqaga bir qadam tashlash bo'ladi.

Sometimes, we hurt the people we never wanted to lose, not because we don’t care, but because we fail to control the parts of ourselves that we should have protected them from.

peace > everything else

one day you will find all the answers. but for now, focus on enjoying the present, trusting your choices, and believing in yourself. you are exactly where you're supposed to be.

ZAMONAVIY ERKAK Avvalgi zamonlarda erkak kishi tirik qolish va oilasini himoya qilish uchun jang qilishni, qurol ishlatishni va ov qilishni bilishga majbur edi. O'sha paytlarda jismoniy kuch va epchillik hamma narsani hal qilgan. Lekin hozirgi zamonda bu majburiyatlar butunlay o'zgargan. Hozirgi kunda ko'chaga nayza ko'tarib chiqib ov qilishning yoki jismoniy kuch bilan hamma narsani hal qilishning keragi yo'q. Zamonaviy erkakning yangi davrdagi "qurollari" nimalardan iborat? Hozirgi dunyoda miyasi bor va mantiqiy fikrlashni biladigan inson kuchli. Doimiy ravishda, hatto xohlamagan paytda ham kerakli harakatlarni bajarish majburiyati va dangasalikni yengish qobiliyati. O'z asablarini va emotsiyalarini jilovlay olmagan inson o'z maqsadlari va xulq-atvorini ham jilovlay olmaydi. Yangi narsalarni o'rganishga dangasalik qilmaslik va barcha imkoniyatlarni ishga solib maqsad tomon intilish. Shuni unutmangki, hech qaysi ayol erini kuchsiz bo'lishini xohlamaydi. Hech qaysi singil akasini kuchsiz bo'lishini xohlamaydi. Siz yoki kuchli bo'lasiz, yoki siz hech kimga kerak emassiz. Erkaklarda boshqa variant yo'q! Davron Turdiev

"There are things a man is afraid to tell even to himself." — Fyodor Dostoevsky

We went too far in thinking and forgot that destinies are written. — Mahmoud Darwish

https://youtu.be/gVY8APzV2-k?si=o-PZXPKnLmg80HQW

It's August again

#farosat Karta raqam so'ralganda, kartani rasmini tashlamang.

#farosat Yozib yuborilgan xabarga, ovozli xabar orqali javob bermang.

Peaky Blinders #review I started Peaky Blinders expecting a stylish gangster drama. Six seasons later, I realized it was never really about gangs. It was about trauma that outlives the war, grief that never truly fades, and the quiet burden of carrying everyone else’s future while slowly losing your own. Tommy Shelby isn’t a hero, and he isn’t a villain. He’s a man who keeps winning battles while losing pieces of himself. Every promotion, every victory, every sacrifice pushed him further away from the life he was fighting to build. Cillian Murphy delivered one of the finest performances I’ve ever watched. He made Tommy feel almost untouchable, yet painfully human at the same time. This isn’t a show about becoming powerful. It’s about what power costs. 9/10.

how silly of me to forget how far I’ve come, just because I still have far to go.

#farosat Rasm ko'rsatishsa, galereyani o'ngga yoki chapga surmang.

Birinchi yolg'ondan keyin hamma haqiqatlar shubhalidir. Ikkinchi yolg'ondan keyin esa hamma shubhalar haqiqatdir. Unutma, bir marta aldagan yana aldaydi!

reminder: even if you win the rat race, you are still a rat.

Kecha bola edim chopqillab yurgan, Aytgani aytgan-u, degani degan, Yillar orzularim oqizgan daryo Bugun aytganiga ko'ndirdi dunyo...