HALAL MARRIAGE

DEAR MARRIED MEN.. Nobody will tell you this, but I will. If you want to go far in LIFE, LOVE your WIFE, take good care of her, don't CHEAT on her, make her HAPPY and her PRAYERS will open doors for you.. Remember, when things go down HEALTH WISE or FINANCIALLY for you, only your WIFE will FEED you and will be there for you. Most of your FRIENDS and SIDE CHICKS will ABANDON you. OLD AGE is coming. It's when a married MAN becomes old HAGGARD and WEAK he will know that a WIFE is better than a SIDE CHICK. And lastly, the LADY you think is better than your WIFE is only better because she is not living with you. Bro INVEST in your WOMAN. It's a RISKY thing not to EMPOWER your WOMAN.

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*29 RULES FOR A RESPONSIBLE MAN* Husbands, in your turn show wisdom in your relations with your wives, as with a weaker sex; honor them, as also to inherit with you the grace of life. So be it, so that nothing gets in the way of your prayers 1. Never Shout, Do not raise your voice on your Partner or your Wife for any reason. A true Man leads by Love not by force. 2. Never compare your partner to other women, not even to your Mother. Each person is unique 3. Don't ignore your wife all day, no communication, no texting, no calls. A "I love you darling" Can brighten her day. 4. Don't Condemn your wife when she makes mistakes. On the contrary, encourage it, motivate it, correct it. 5. Training your partner to earn money doesn't make them 100% financially dependent on you. Sponsor her if need be. 6. Know that a sexual "good night" is prepared during the day with little attentions. Sex is not just a duty but a moment of pleasure and communion 7. In bed, don't be selfish. Take your time, Don't rush things. Pay attention to your partner's sexual needs. Women don't function like men. 8. Don't Allow Anyone To Talk To Your Wife Any Way In Your Presence. Defend her and protect her. 9. never despise, don't put your partner down in front of your children 10. Don't be stingy in compliments. Appreciate your partner when she is well dressed, well groomed and has cooked well. 11. Be Generous. Do not wait for a Special occasion to please your Wife. 12. Do not allow your parents or family to interfere in your home. They must not have the last word in your house 13. Allah subhanahu wa tala has given you the Ability to transform your wife. Sow in her everything you want to harvest: respect, love, consideration. 14. Remember that women need attention and listening. Don't always be too busy for her. 15. Be confident. Accept your wife's ideas if they are better than yours. She is your helper and not your Adversary. 16. Be Clean, Shaved and Fragrant. Women like Clean Men. 17. Stop, stop and stop throwing your socks, shirts and shoes everywhere, organization and order is not necessarily a genetic trait, everyone can learn. 18. stop saying "I am the head of this family" when you want to be Reasonable or you want to force your will on your partner, a real leader does not proclaim it. 19. The education of children is in fact your duty as a man, it should not be made the business of your wife alone, she is just to help you, make the children take a bath yourself from time to time. time, take them to school, sometimes go to the open day, etc. 20. Never make a woman become attached to you by giving her undue attention when you know you are not interested in her. Then when she falls in love with you, you say, “I just wanted to be nice.” It's not kind at all. It's being a predator. 21. Your House is not a Hotel where you come Only to Sleep. Give your family time by coming home early to be with your wife 22. Please improve your ability to please your wife during sex. Be creative, imaginative 23. Try to say I'm sorry and ask for forgiveness when you're wrong, believe me it won't decrease, quite the contrary 24. The Fruits of the womb are a blessing from Heaven, Do not make your Wife responsible if the child is late in Coming. Seek the Solution in Prayer. 25. It is your responsibility to Pray and teach your family according to the Word of God. Pray with them. 26. Make it a habit to attend worship together 27. Never abuse a woman, whether physically, emotionally or psychologically! , A real man does not beat a woman! 28. A real man is courteous, he has finesse and he is gallant; he knows how to open the door to the ladies, yield to them his seat, etc. Pardon does not invite a lady to the restaurant to let her pay the bill. 29. Take care of your family the best you can. Put your children in the best schools. Not necessarily the one where you need "Faith" to pay. Be the best Husband and Great Dad there is.

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💔 Why Are So Many Marriages Failing? Because we’ve abandoned the prophetic criteria. The Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ said: "If there comes to you one whose religious commitment and character you are pleased with, then marry (your daughter) to him. If you do not, there will be fitnah in the land and widespread corruption." 📘 Jāmiʿ at-Tirmidhī 1085 – Ḥasan (by al-Albānī) And when the companions asked, “Even if he is such and such?” The Prophet ﷺ repeated it three times — to emphasize it loud and clear. 🛑 But what happens today? We reject a righteous man because: — He doesn’t drive a fancy car 🚫 — His skin tone doesn’t match “beauty standards” 🚫 — His job isn’t high status 🚫 — He’s not from “our caste” or “our race” 🚫 And then what? 📉 Trials in the Ummah. 📉 Endless divorce rates. 📉 Broken daughters. 📉 Regretful parents. We chose culture over Sunnah. We paid the price. 💡 The Prophet ﷺ never said: “Marry the one with the biggest bank account.” He said: Marry the one with the biggest taqwā and best character. 🌹 A man of religion will fear Allah in how he treats your daughter. A man of character will support her through storms with patience and mercy. And yes — this applies to women too. The same standard must be applied in both directions: dīn and akhlāq. 🤲 O Allah, revive in our hearts the prophetic standards. Let us choose what pleases You over what pleases people. Aameen

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Once read a comment that said: “I was married to a student of Islamic knowledge, yet he constantly reminded me of my illness and made me feel like a burden. That experience taught me one lesson: never be deceived by titles, appearances, or reputation. Look at a person's character, for that is what you will live with every day.” You do not need more than a sensible husband with good character, who establishes the five daily prayers, earns from halal sources, and has a connection with the Qur'an and worship. Remove from your list the conditions that social media has filled your mind with. There are homes filled with oppression, abuse, and misery despite an abundance of beards, Islamic texts, certificates, and titles. And there are homes filled with mercy, tranquillity, and kindness among ordinary Muslims who may never have studied advanced Islamic sciences, yet understand what it means to fear Allah and treat others well. A person's books, certificates, and reputation *do not guarantee a successful marriage if they do not act upon what they know. So look first at their character, manners, and religion before looking at their memorization, status, or popularity. The title of “Shaykh” will not lessen the pain of oppression. Knowledge alone will not benefit others if it is not accompanied by good character. A long beard will not show mercy if the heart is harsh and the tongue is hurtful. Shaykh Ibn ʿUthaymīn رحمه الله said: If the seeker of knowledge does not display virtuous character and good manners, then his pursuit of knowledge is futile. [شرح حلية طالب العلم، للشيخ محمد بن صالح العثيمين رحمه الله | ص ٨] A man is not measured by what he knows, but by how he lives. And the real test of a person's religion is often found in the way they treat those under their care when no one is watching. Anyone can speak about good character. The real test is living by it.

✍🏻 Spending On Your Family Is Also Charity (Ṣadaqah) Prophet Muḥammad Ṣallallāhu-ʿAlaihi Wa Sallam said: “What you feed yourself is charity for you, and what you feed your child is charity for you, and what you feed your wife is charity for you...” ● [الأدب المفرد للبخاري ٨٢]